Assertiveness: do you really know what it means?

Although it ostensibly deals with assertiveness, the definition provided by the author goes far beyond what you might find in encyclopedic entries. The scope of information contained in this publication also extends well beyond presenting general norms and principles defining the term "assertiveness." After reading it at a quick weekend pace (since I only wanted to see what it was about and planned on reading two, maybe three chapters), I now know that this is one of my favorite books on personal development and the broadly understood, currently trendy concept of "coaching." It discusses seemingly ordinary, well-known matters, but in a way that is incredibly impactful (at least for me). The author, Bartłomiej Stolarczyk, interestingly discusses simple interpersonal communication skills that can facilitate human relationships. He also reminds us that, in reality, we are the ones who control what happens to us and who is in charge of it all. Even though at first glance one might tell oneself, "Well, of course it's us, who else would it be?", after familiarizing yourself with the insightful, real-life anecdotes presented, you might catch yourself realizing that if a given situation had been analyzed in the way the author suggests, the subsequent events could have unfolded quite differently. This is also knowledge about taking control—control over oneself. Although everything is packaged under the title of assertiveness, there is much more to it. I would even wonder if the title shouldn't have included the phrase "learn how to treat yourself in various situations." I don't want to elaborate here on the methods or discuss the information contained within the book, but I can certainly say one thing: it is one of the better books of this type, which is best read for yourself. 

Author's website: http://bartlomiej-stolarczyk.com/

I highly recommend reading it.